Thursday, 15 December 2016

Rich, Revolutionary And Reflective Rebekah
“Every successful man has a woman behind him,” often I see this locution as I scroll down my Facebook account and some extent it’s factual too. Weeks ago my philosophical mind clinched to find a protagonist against the notion. I hope the feminist won’t label me as a cynic. Esau the Genesis Character is petrified gazing at the avowal. Yes I can construe the question words in your mind Why and How. To keep your hair on queries, kindly read Book of Genesis chapter 27 in the Holy Bible. Rebekah being only the woman in the extract becomes fibber and fetches Esau a life of failure. I recall very vividly a dialogue from the Malayalam movie Kuttisrank in which a young girl says to a young Buddhist Monk and I quote “A woman can take a man to anywhere.”   

Being a novice in the realm of theology I cleave on to the view that nobody can presage and plot one’s destiny. Blessing as the main theme and the word that used 28 times throughout the story, it was not Rebekah who meddled to lose the birth right and blessings of Easu. Bible itself particularly the previous chapters in the book of Genesis very clearly describes that Esau was not the chosen one.  “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples born of you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the elder shall serve the younger.” (Genesis 25: 23). “When Esau was forty years old he married Judith daughter of Elon the Hittite; and they made life bitter for Isaac and Rebekah.” (Genesis 26: 34). The above verses expounds that he himself made his situation pathetic not to be the chosen one. Son who makes the life of his parents acrimonious will be repudiated off many things. 

Intervention of Rebekah was not accidental to evict Esau from God’s plan for the humanity. The inheritance promised by God was firmly fixed in her mind; she knew that it was decreed to her son Jacob. There are three essentials that made Rebekah to play a pivotal role in the story,  The reflective journey through the passage substantiate that the story is emphasized on the feelings of Seeing, Hearing, Tasting, Touching, and Smelling. Sensual feelings play huge amount of role in one’s life but it is also important to use the capacity of tongue to understand the feelings.  As a family it’s necessary to have communication among all the members, but in this family the scenario of communication is entirely different. Jacob and Esau never appear together in the four major scenes of this story, nor do Rebekah and Esau, which symbolizes a lack of communication within the family.” Lack of communication among the family members made Rebekah to communicate with the Yahweh where she could realize that Jacob was the chosen one. It wouldn’t be a fate for Esau if Isaac had properly communicated with Rebekah because she really knew the plan of God about Esau. God really exposes Himself about his steps and strategies to the one who always communicates with him. And Rebekah was rich in communication with God; as she attuned to the oracle that she received during the birth of Esau and Jacob. Communication among the family is to be fostered to have better understanding of God’s plan about oneself. 

 The passage commences with the discourse between Isaac and Esau in which Isaac highlights about his days on the earth and the savoury food. These two concepts clearly state that how Issac was oriented to the physical enrichments. It was not necessary that the tasty food should be served before the paternal blessings, but Isaac insists and this gives a picture of a failure father. Isaac’s attachment towards physical desires exposes that he relies on his own understanding not on God’s indulgence. He was pleased with the son who fills his stomach. The physical wishes lead him blindly for the love of his firstborn son, to prefer him to the other; and in this way he contended against the oracle of God, which God had pronounced before the children were born.  Isaac who denies the power and promises of God and trusting in himself could be a stumbling block for the fulfillment of planned salvation. He was gratifying his sensual desires in opposition to God’s plan. Here Rebekah contradicts Isaac as a woman who attentively moves around with God’s plan and prophecies.  The character of Isaac as a father who seeks physical fostering clearly describes that the intervention of Rebekah was not fortuitous but preplaced.

 The character of Rebekah is introduced in the book of Genesis as an icon of listening. Her entry before the senior servant of Abraham will underline the fact that Rebekah formed herself as a woman of listening. (Genesis 24: 12-19) And again we could see the quality of listening in Rebekah before the birth of the twins. “She went to inquire of the Lord.” (Genesis 25: 22). Finally, the passage reinforces her uniqueness in listening by saying that, “Now Rebekah was listening when Isaac spoke to his son Esau.” (Genesis 27: 5). The concept of ‘listening’ has got a spiritual tone in the Bible. Rebekah did not just happen to overhear the whispering of Isaac and Esau as they plotted the diversion of divine promises to the elder son. The Hebrew form that is used in the original text suggests that this was a habit, a pattern of behavior, not a happenstance. It was after all this quality of listening that made Rebekah to be reflective and walk along with the Plan of God. The intervention of Rebekah to fulfill the Plan of God was not accidental and the quality of listening in her life depicts that she was attuned to do so. 

Rebekah as a character in the passage can be mistreated negatively as a woman who deceives her husband and partial to her elder son. But as God oriented home maker she plays a pivotal role in the household endeavors. Rebekah prepared herself by developing her qualities and acted prudently to be part of God’s intervention towards the salvation of human being. The character of Rebekah blows the wind of mother hood and its role in the family. Her positive qualities can really be inculcated among the contemporary mothers. To say as a mother, a woman in this pragmatic world needs to be rich in communication both vertically and horizontally that is with God and her family members. A wife should not take the advantage of her husband’s weakness rather be a facilitator for him to get together. Be a revolutionary in home making. The world today presents lot of break-up families and the reason for it could be lack of listening. As women and mother the modern era should set reflective Rebekah as the icon for this quality. It would be better if the women today emulate Rebekah in this regard for a home to be a God dwelling abode.  Let Rebekah be the mediator for the women today, and which can lead to a paradigm shift in women perception in this generation, that still struggles to view women as equal beings to enhance the society at large.   

Tuesday, 12 April 2016

മൂന്ന് വർഷത്തെ കലാലയ ജീവിതത്തിനൊടുവിൽ
അറിവും ആശയങ്ങളും എന്നെ അടിമപ്പെടുത്തിയപ്പോഴും
അഴകും അലങ്കാരങ്ങളും (കലാലയത്തിലെ സുന്ദരിമാർ) എന്നെ ആകർഷിച്ചപ്പോഴും
ആത്മീയതയും ആഡംബരങ്ങളും എന്നെ അലോസരപ്പെടുത്തിയപ്പോഴും
അച്ചൻ പട്ടത്തിൻറെ കൽപടവുകൾ താണ്ടി 
അനശ്വരതയുടെ ആകാശഗോപുരത്തിൽ ഇടം കണ്ടെത്തണമെന്ന് ഓർമ്മിപ്പിച്ച
ധർമ്മാരാം കോളേജിലെ ഡി- കുടുംബത്തിൻറെ, ക്രൈസ്റ്റ് യൂണിവേഴ്സ്റ്റി (2013- 16) ബി കോം ബി യുടെ സ്നേഹത്തിനു, സൗഹൃദത്തിനു, സന്തോഷത്തിനു
നന്ദിയോടെ ....
ജിതിൻ ജോസ് കാളൻ സി. എം. ഐ.
ധർമ്മാരാം കോളേജ്, ബംഗളുരു

“After a Three Years of College Life
I was Enslaved by Intellect and Ideas
I was Attracted by Beauty and Cutie
And I had Clash between Spirituality and Secularism
Still You have Reminded Me with Your Faith, Friendship and Fraternity
That I should Step to My Priesthood of Holiness and Humanness to Achieve the Kingdom of God.”
I Express My Sincere Gratitude to Every One for You have been to Me, Especially to D- Family of Dharmaram College and B. Com B (2013-16) of Christ University.
Bro. Jithin Jose Kalan CMI
Dharmaram College Bangalore

Friday, 20 November 2015

Cross the Border
 Practicing the philosophy of observation I have reserved myself last week to do so. And hubs under my surveillance were Christ University Campus, Forum Mall and St. Antony’s Friary Church in Bangalore. The net result of my research was that people in this circle can’t haul up their heads from the so called smart devices either it may be a smart phone, a tab or a lap top. They were nosy to see the flashes on their device that was emerging in each and every moment. It is so evident that things are at our finger touch and we are the aficionados of those smart gadgets considering them as our better part. Smartizens are increasing day by day and that’s tactile through the commercial ads given by the different companies of smart devices. The write up may be intrusive or irk for the people who are too much espoused to the world of smartness. It may not make sense as we have everything in front of us just in a finger’s tap. A Knowledge Centre (Library), a Land Mark Book Stall and a 24x 7 Adoration centre fledged with spiritual books were attached to the vicinities of my observation and to my surprise very few were gyrated the pages of the books over there. Reader I can heed the question in your mind. Why do we need to go behind books as everything is attenuated on our display?  Ravinder Singh the author of ‘I too had a love story’ can answer your question “To know if a dish is sweet or salty you have to taste it first.” And it’s same with the Books too.

Here comes the role of Library and the habit of reading. Reading makes man perfect so a Library is the temple of learning, an abode of knowledge and wisdom. It is a sacred place where you are chiseled to be a perfect human being.  The knowledge we muster from our smart devices may end up once the flash goes off, but Library invites us to have a serious research and bourgeon our knowledge which is not peripheral but perennial. And that’s why Kunjunni Mash a Malayalam veteran poet known as (Poet of Children) wrote “You will grow whether you read or not, but you will be having suave knowledge once you read if not you will be an impish.” People today are at the verge of habit of going to library or reading books because we are hogged by the smart gadgets. For anything and everything, we browse Google as if Google is our Guru. It’s true, no library or book by itself has ever produced a Newton or a Tulsidas. But a library or a book can open our eyes. The creative thoughts in a book can give us insights with different outlook towards day today life. World becomes competitive, creative and collaborative day by day and if we want to be the benchmarks, we need to sell the best commodity and that is our thoughts or reflections. I believe a library can give a good ambience to jostle our contemplation. Cross the border and that’s, let our rooms, homes and our office cabins embellish with books. To conclude, an excerpt from a book titled ‘Sanchariyude Daivam’ (God of a traveler) written by a priest named Fr. Boby Jose will be suitable. There is a page for gratitude in the book, in which he writes, “I thank my father for providing me books instead of toys in my good old childhood days because he knew it will be a profit in long run.” So let us give a space in our lives for books and library amidst smart phones and selfies which can be fixed opulence of knowledge.
Jithin Kalan CMI

Sunday, 20 September 2015


'C' Formula of St. Joseph 
"തച്ചപുരയിലെ തട്ടുമുട്ടുകൾ താളമേളങ്ങളാക്കിയും ജോലി വേലകാളാകവേ ഒരു ഗാനമാലികയാക്കിയും 
വാനദൂതർക്കിമ്പമേകിയ ഗാനഗന്ധർവൻ പാവന ഗാനകോകിലം"     
Often I think why this old man, Joseph was selected to be the husband of Mary the young queen of Nazareth? My doubt is clarified by the book of Job 12:12 “wisdom is with the aged and understanding in the length of days.” Joseph was an inevitable personality in Jesus’ life to mold Him as Christ.  St. Joseph was chosen to be the foster father of Jesus but what about others, why were they not? It’s because he had the three C’s in his life as virtues which later turned out to define Christ. As we are religious being in the process of becoming another Christ these virtues of St. Joseph will make our course easy.

Contemplation is the first virtue that we are required to have in our life. I know that I have no moral strength to talk about contemplation for the reason that I am too chatty. Richard Rohr through his book “Everything Belongs” underscores the above opinion, “One always learns ones mystery at the price of one’s contemplation.” Yes, it’s the meditative and reflective life style of St. Joseph that favored God to choose him to be the stepfather of Jesus. The scene is portrayed in the Gospel of Matthew where Joseph had three dreams in different occasions. Dreams are the outcome of contemplation. We do have dreams but it never befall as a reality. Mere nightmares won’t show the way to actuality. It is very much important the constituent of revelation makes dreams bone fide. In simple terms dreams turn out to be vision when the recipe of contemplation is added. “One will enjoy the solitude, if he or she finds time to have contemplation.” says St. Antony the Desert Father. Jesus devoted himself to be in silent places and I believe the source to develop that habit was St. Joseph. Contemplation links one with God. The rapport between God and Joseph directed Jesus to cling on to his Abba. To reinstate Khalil Gibran’s words, “The difference between Jesus and us is nothing but, He lived his life in the vision of God.”
Contemplation delivers God experience and that ecstasy creates commitment. It’s the second virtue commitment by which Joseph formed Jesus as Christ. Commitment is not a simple notion like our FB status as we assume, but it’s a virtue one should acquire through daily observation. Commitment implies that being Loyal 101% to ones responsibilities. Life of St. Joseph displays very clearly the value of commitment. He was dedicated to his job, carpentry. The rule of a carpenter is “Think twice and cut once.”   Precise decision is the benchmark of a committed person. Imagine the situation of Mary, if Joseph had no clear picture of her life ahead, she would be stoned like Suraiah. Yes, devoted character forces God to choose us for His ingenious ploys. And the notion is emphasized by St. Paul to Ephesians 6:8 “Whatever good we do, we will receive the same again from the Lord.”
A Prostitute, owner of a nunnery said to Joseph, “Tell your son to save us from this peril when he becomes the king in future, because we are prostitutes.” This is an imaginary incident written by Sakhariya in his Book titled Arkariyam. The plot behind this episode was that Joseph and Mary hid themselves in a nunnery to save Jesus from the soldiers who were asked to kill the children below two by Herod. We could find this compassionate face in Jesus when he draws the Lakshmana Rekha before Pharisees and others as he stood for the woman caught in adultery. Compassion is getting into the others shoe; so passion to sort out other’s difficulties was inherent in St. Joseph’s life. God did know that only such person could be the foster father of His son. The purpose of Christ’s life was to restore the humanity from its pitfalls.   Revamping a system like humanity which has ups and downs needs a compassionate heart. St. Joseph was the first person to touch and feel Christ. So Christ= Contemplation+ Commitment+ Compassion. Let’s strive in the footsteps of St. Joseph to achieve this simple formula of eternal happiness.

    Jithin Kalan CMI

Thursday, 17 September 2015


St. John the Baptist The Promoter of Jesus' Company

Identify the Bible Character who you are? Was the first notification I have found as I signed into my FB account yesterday. The Gospel of the day portrays four Bible characters for our reflection and to spot to which our personalities are road to. Herod a self proclaimed king is the first character who had given a wrong promise. His promise was off beam because he was not a king but a ruler of ¼ of the great Herod.  The second personality is Herodias a woman with full of grudge to kill a righteous and a holy man who was against her immoral notions. Salome as per the Bible Scholars a 12year girl is the third individual who was a mere extension of her mother’s revenge. The fourth character is St. John the Baptist. Promoter a piquant concept that is used in business and company realms, I would like to link the personality of John the Baptist with the traits of a promoter. The task of a promoter is to take all the necessary steps to create and mold an organization and set it going. Yes St. John the Baptist was the promoter of Jesus’ company named The Kingdom of God and ‘The Beatitudes’ as its brand uniqueness. The promoter abides by the mission and vision of the organization and finds the capital for its long run. Righteousness was the objective and holiness as the spiritual capital that St. John the Baptist had as he promoted the Jesus’ company. Promoter’s existence becomes paler when the Board of Directors is legally formed. St. John the Baptist was really an advertiser in its fullness and that is expounded in the Gospel of John 3: 30 where he says, “He must increase and I must decrease.” Our call as religious is to be the promoters of Jesus Company. The epistle today 2nd letter to Timothy 2: 8 accentuate the idea by stating “Jesus Christ rose from the dead and that is my Gospel for which I suffer hardship and being chained like a criminal.” The best paradigm for the promoter of Jesus’ Company before us is our Founder St. Kuriakose Elias who had the spiritual capital of Baptismal innocence and the vision of Prayer and love for the people of God. Let us have an introspection to ourselves throughout the whole day asking am I a promoter of Jesus’ company by proclaiming and living the word of God. The slogan by Mike Murdock written in his book titled “The Leadership secrets of Jesus” be our hushed mantra “Make decisions that will create the future you desire.”       

Let us close our eyes for a while and pray, God our heavenly Father, we thank you, praise you and adore you for giving us the chance to be on the shore of blessed Sacrament in this beautiful morning.  Shower your blessings on us to be the promoters of your company by our Thoughts, Words and Deeds, Amen.   
Jithin Kalan CMI

Tuesday, 21 October 2014



Rosary- A Shadow in Our Lives

A conversation between a mother and her son on a bridge while crossing a river,
Mother: Son, hold on my hand tightly.
Son: No mother, you hold my hand properly
Mother: Both are same right?
Son: No mother, I may leave my hand, if a thorn or a stone hits my leg but I have umpteen times of surety that you won’t leave my hand.
Celebration or recitation of Rosary invites us to meditate upon a mother who holds our hands throughout our life like the mother whom we have heard in the story. Here the saying is important “A mother carries her child nine months in her womb and bears forever in her heart after the birth.” I would say Rosary is a renewal of our promise what apostle St. John has made which we read in the gospel, “And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.”  
 As we are entering into the concluding day of solemn Rosary I would request you to reflect upon two concepts which will help us to make this Rosary more meaningful. The first notion is the attitude of Mother Mary. She keeps her promise even in the 20th century after Jesus entrusted her as the mother of the whole world, saying “Women here is your son.” Yes she is always with us. She helps us during the time of trials and tribulations and the best example is the wedding at Cana. I would like to entitle her as a shadow. Philosophically shadow is what always with us or it is inbuilt. We see it only when the rays of light fall on us. Hope that this celebration of Rosary spread the rays of hope on us so that we feel the presence of Mary with us always and everywhere.
Secondly it is the attitude of St. John the evangelist.  When Jesus told him, “Here is your mother. And from that moment the disciple took her in to his own home.” The home is nothing but heart. So John received Mother Mary into his heart. Today we represent John and it’s our duty to prepare our heart to obtain our mother. Rosary is the best means to welcome Mamma Mary to our heart and that’s why Fr. Shaji Thumpechirayil had sung “പൊട്ടിയിട്ടും കൂട്ടികെട്ടിയ പ ഴയൊരു ജപമാല വീട്ടിലുണ്ടായിരുന്നു It highlights that Rosary is the easiest link to connect Jesus along with Mary.  Rosary connects 3 C’s of Christian life. Cana, Calvary and Christ. Cana is a place of litany of sorrows and struggles where you intercede to our mother; Calvary is a mountain of suffering and torment where our mother is with us and Christ is our destiny to which our mother helps us to reach. 



I would like to wind up with the concept of AIDA employed in the world of advertisement. It is an acronym for Attention, Interest, Desire and Action. An advertisement becomes more colorful when these four concepts are applied properly and proportionally. The same way our Rosary becomes more meaningful and fruitful when we recite with attention, interest, desire which leads to action. 
Jithin Kalan CMI

St. Therese of Avila a Harvest on Jesus Field 

A Whatsapp message, “Jesus is not a corporate Guru, not a CEO of an MNC, not a true tycoon, not a marketing manger but owns a brand company named kingdom of God.” At the very outset I wish you the greetings and blessings of the heavenly patron’s day of St. Therese of Avila. Season of Diwali invites us to have a glimpse of advertisements which provide offers. The news papers and social network pages are fledged with it. In similar both the readings of the day and the life of St. Therese of Avila flaunt the offers given by the company Kingdom of God. Jesus without any back up of business trades the spiritual commodities of Faith, Hope and Love with five innovative, inspiring and igniting offers through the gospel passage, provided we buy his product “Word of God” and use it. They are the following
1. I will not leave you orphaned
2. I live so you also will live
3. Those who love me will be loved by my Father.
4. I will love them and reveal myself to them.
5. We will come to them and make our home with them.
As we celebrate the feast of St. Therese of Avila, she is the best epitome who had access to these offers, and those gobbled up her life as a Gospel. Fr. Biju Madathikunnel will underline the above thoughts through his words in the book Eliyanoi “The one who bears the fragrance of Christ is a miracle.” The name Therese comes from the Greek origin THERIZO which means harvest. I believe it’s just because she seized these offers her life was a harvest and the grains like spiritual reformation in the Carmelite Order, her writings and the Doctrinal status are stored in Jesus’ Interior Castle. Celebration of feast of Saints jostles us to examine our lives. As we are Carmelites, following the same spirituality of St. Therese of Avila, the questions before us are, have I become a harvest on Jesus’ field? Have I own the offers given by Christ? If I have owned am I a service provider to offer the same? Yes, is your answer, Christ will make you a partner of his company. If not, St. Paul through today’s epistle to Colossians Chapter 2 verse 3 will roost the scenario by saying.” Seek the things that are above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God, not on things that are on earth.”
Let us close our eyes for a while and pray, Lord our heavenly Father we thank you for giving this wonderful day and St. Therese of Avila as today’s heavenly Patron. God shower your grace to be owned by the offers you are bestowed for us. Lord, help us to be the harvest of Christian values and virtues which is cherished and nurtured by St. Therese of Avila Amen.
St, Therese of Avila – Pray for us

Jithin Kalan CMI